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Normal Mental Health: How Does Chasing It Create Stigma?

December 26, 2017 Rachel Miles

Normal mental health is a myth, and chasing it feeds into mental health stigma. Find out what normal mental health is and isn't and why no one has found it yet.

The idea of "normal" mental health affects me as someone who struggles with mental illness. I often fall prey to the idea that mental health is something I can only achieve by becoming more like “normal” people. In an age of health coaches and self-help gurus, it can be easy to believe that the ability to conform to a more widely accepted lifestyle is the answer to all mental health problems. Unfortunately, rather than offering a solution, the myth of normal mental health creates more stigma around mental illness.

What Is Normal Mental Health?

In a recent session with my therapist, I confessed how much shame I had about not being able to live “like a normal person.” She instantly challenged me by asking an important question: what is normal? The truth is that the normal person doesn’t exist.

When it comes to mental health, normality is a myth that does little to provide a path to long-term recovery. Instead, it serves as a standard we measure ourselves against, consistently finding that we come up short in comparison.

How We Define Normal Mental Health

People tend to define what is normal according to their perceptions about several things:

  • What seems safest/most secure
  • What is easy to accept
  • What has worked well for friends/family/acquaintances
  • What is traditionally done

While pursuing one’s idea of a normal life with normal mental health may make things easier for some, those who struggle with mental illness often find that they encounter even more obstacles on the "path to normal" than they would by choosing a different way.

They may find that what offers them the most safety and security is not easy to accept. They may find that what has worked well for people they know goes terribly wrong for them. They may find that what is traditionally done would cause them greater hardship than finding an alternative route.

Getting Past the Mental Health Normality Myth

I still have a hard time with comparing myself to my own variation of what I deem normal mental health. Even if normality is a myth, it can be a hard concept to get rid of. This is especially true for those who feel different within society. However, it is important to remember that being different does not make one abnormal as a result.

This has been an important truth for me to embrace. While seeing myself as different comes with its own set of challenges, it does not give me the sense of inherent shame that defining myself and my life as abnormal does.

Challenge Perceptions of Normal in the Mental Health Community

As we move onward into the new year, I would encourage us all to challenge our own ideas of what constitutes normality. It is incredibly important to consider whether those ideas are helping or hurting us on the road to recovery.

What ideas about being “normal” have you come up against? How might they have contributed to mental health stigma in your life?

APA Reference
Miles, R. (2017, December 26). Normal Mental Health: How Does Chasing It Create Stigma?, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, March 29 from https://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/survivingmentalhealthstigma/2017/12/how-the-myth-of-normality-creates-mental-health-stigma



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Dr Musli Ferati
May, 11 2018 at 11:47 am

Interesting and intriguing article on mental health and its variations. Indeed mental health indicates a polymorphism of psychological functions that contribute to perform daily life deeds and needs , as well. If we didn't may to accomplish elementary life function then we might to said that our mental health is damaged, or distracted. In these cases we should require professional psychiatric help. Any psychopathological symptoms and signs that didn't compromise seriously our global life function isn't mental disorder that must be under professional psychiatyric observation and treatment. Your genuine experience with your mental illness confirm the above mention criteria of mental health, respectively mental illness. Normal mental health is definitively is a fiction term, that often cause confusion and misunderstanding among professional and laic community. So, it is of great importance to accept and incorporate up to date conceptions of mental health welfare through daily personal, occupational and social function. Normal or abnormal mental health should throw out from interpersonal communication. Instead, we ought to use the modern attribute of global life performance that may be good or bad.

Noelle
December, 26 2017 at 4:48 pm

This is fabulous and has given me a lot of thought and reflection.
I look at where I am at in comparison with other "women" my age of 47.
Everyone I know is successful.
They either went to college and have a career based on their degree or they have stayed at their jobs for many years and worked their way up in the company.
My daughter drives a nicer car than mine.
I struggle financially and have not held a job longer then 4 years.
I find it ironic that I am extremely hard on myself given my mental illness. Instead of being more forgiving of myself, I am determined to NOT use it as an excuse or want sympathy so I do not cut myself any slack
In my feelings of "abnormality" I have VERY unrealistic expectations of myself.
Thank you for reminding me that I am not abnormal just different.

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