Pretending You’re Fine Worsens Depression
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Pretending You’re Fine Worsens Depression,,
It’s a dilemma someone on the outside of depression might not realize. When you live with depression, it takes supreme effort to appear as if you’re fine. Even though doing so is exhausting, you drag yourself out of bed and support others or simply trudge to the next gargantuan chore on your list. Maybe you pretend to be fine because you don’t want to be a burden. Perhaps you feel like you must hide your pain. Whatever your personal reason, you do everything you can to keep going and look “normal.”
"The only thing more exhausting than being depressed is pretending that you're not." ~ Depression Quote
However, depression is a real illness that is both mentally and physically exhausting. The effort it takes to function as if you’re fine can wear you out further. This makes your need for depression support and understanding even greater, but because others think you’re fine, you silently slide deeper into the dark hole that is major depression.
Consider a balanced approach. Choose one or two areas that, to you, are important to spend your very limited energy. Identify areas where you need extra support. Give yourself permission to ask for help in those areas so you can spend energy elsewhere.
It’s understandable that you might want people in your life to see you as okay. Remember, though, that depression is an illness you’re experiencing. It isn’t a weakness, a flaw, or a component of your character. It is okay to not be okay.
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Your Thoughts
Today's Question: Does pretending your fine make your depression worse? We invite you to participate by sharing your thoughts, experiences, and knowledge on the HealthyPlace Facebook page.
From the HealthyPlace Mental Health Blogs
On all our blogs, your comments and observations are welcomed.
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Feel free to share your thoughts and comments at the bottom of any blog post. And visit the mental health blogs homepage for the latest posts.
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Most Popular HealthyPlace Articles Shared by Facebook Fans
Here are the top 3 mental health articles HealthyPlace Facebook fans are recommending you read:
- The Myth of the Nervous Breakdown
- When Should You Conquer Fear?
- Why Are There So Few Articles About Healing After Abuse?
If you're not already, I hope you'll join us/like us on Facebook too. There are a lot of wonderful, supportive people there.
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Mental Health Quote
"Sleep just isn't sleep anymore. It's an escape."
Read more depression quotes.
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APA Reference
Peterson, T.
(2020, March 31). Pretending You’re Fine Worsens Depression, HealthyPlace. Retrieved
on 2024, December 21 from https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-health-newsletter/pretending-youre-fine-worsens-depression
