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Feeling Guilty Because You Have A Mental Illness

HealthyPlace.com Staff Writer

HealthyPlace Mental Health Newsletter

Here's what's happening on the HealthyPlace site this week:

Do you feel guilty because you have a mental illness? Find out if the guilt tied to your mental illness is appropriate and how to get rid of guilty feelings.

Feeling Guilty Because You Have A Mental Illness

Do you feel guilty because you have a mental illness? HealthyPlace newsletter subscriber, Jason, does. In an email, Jason writes:

"I feel guilty for having bipolar disorder. At some point or another, it has affected, even hurt everyone important in my life; my parents, my friends, my co-workers. I feel especially bad for my parents because I see the hurt in their faces whenever they see me struggling."

Guilt does serve a positive purpose. If you've done something wrong, you feel "emotionally hounded" until you apologize and right the wrong. On the other hand, it can become self-destructive and a complete waste of energy. So how do you figure out whether your guilt is appropriate. HealthyPlace Medical Director, Dr. Harry Croft, suggests asking yourself this one question:

Am I truly responsible for what happened?

feeling-guilty-mental-illness-art-01Feeling Guilty Because You Have A Mental IllnesshealthyplaceYou are not responsible for having a mental illness. You are not responsible because you might need someone's help. You are not responsible for other people's reactions to your simply having a mental illness. But you are responsible for your actions and behaviors whether or not you have a mental illness. If you have done something improper or wrong, under the influence of your mental illness or not, then guilt may be an appropriate emotional response.

How to Get Rid of Guilty Feelings

Figure out whether or not you should feel guilty. Did you actually do something wrong? Being born with or developing a mental illness is not something you did. Taking money from your parents for treatment and using it to party is an example of doing something wrong.

Is there something you can do to right things or make them better? Maybe you can't give the money back right now, but you can definitely apologize and learn from what you did.

Still feeling guilty? Ask yourself if it's necessary or productive. If you've done everything you can, does guilt still serve any positive purpose?

It's time to get on with your life. Negative, guilty feelings lead to inappropriate levels of shame and self-loathing. Affirm that nobody is perfect and that you will not make this mistake again. Engage in positive activities that allow you to do good.

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Your Thoughts

Today's Question: "Do YOU feel guilty about having a mental illness?" We invite you to participate by commenting and sharing your feelings, experiences and knowledge on the HealthyPlace Facebook page.

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Most Popular HealthyPlace Articles Shared by Facebook Fans

Here are the top 3 mental health articles HealthyPlace Facebook fans are recommending you read:

  1. How to Deal with Panic Attacks: Panic Attack Self-Help
  2. The Relationship Between Bipolar and Anger / Aggression
  3. After The Mental Illness Diagnosis: Getting on With Life!

If you're not already, I hope you'll join us/like us on Facebook too. There are a lot of wonderful, supportive people there.

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From the HealthyPlace Mental Health Blogs

On all our blogs, your comments and observations are welcomed.

Feel free to share your thoughts and comments at the bottom of any blog post. And visit the mental health blogs homepage for the latest posts.

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Stand Up for Mental Health

Thousands Have Joined the Stand Up for Mental Health Campaign

But we still need you. Let others know there's no shame in having depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, trichotillomania, OCD, ADHD, schizophrenia or any other mental illness.

Join the Stand Up for Mental Health campaign. Put a button on your website or blog (buttons for family members, parents, mental health professionals and organizations too). We also have covers for Facebook, Twitter and Google+.

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Latest Mental Health News

These stories and more are featured on our mental health news page:

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  • Social Cognition Link to Positive Psychotic Symptoms
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  • Antipsychotics May Counteract Brain Dysfunction
  • How to Bust Out of a Creative Rut

That's it for now. If you know of anyone who can benefit from this newsletter or the HealthyPlace.com site, I hope you'll pass this onto them. You can also share the newsletter on any social network (like facebook, stumbleupon, or digg) you belong to by clicking the links below. For updates throughout the week:

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APA Reference
Staff, H. (2013, July 17). Feeling Guilty Because You Have A Mental Illness, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2024, December 18 from https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/mental-health-newsletter/feeling-guilty-because-you-have-a-mental-illness

Last Updated: December 13, 2017
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Medically reviewed by Harry Croft, MD

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